There are rising cases of matrimonial disputes and divorce in punjab . Punjab Women Commission is going to start a move to help the girls to save their marriage from divorce. The girls will be given tips on keeping their marriage intact. The plan is to start pre-marital counselling sessions in colleges to create awareness about matrimonial problems and preventive measures.They will be made aware of the fact how to tackle with day to day problems and not to be ready for the extreme step. A successful marriage needs time and space . They will also be given awareness of their rights and in case of problems legal remedies available.
No doubt the step should be applauded. The lesson, the patience that the girls learnt while living in a joint family are missing in today's india.The girls of today are aware of their rights . They want freedom.They cannot tolerate injustice.But certain other points should also be kept in mind to solve this problem.All the girls are not lucky enough to go to college. So such a counselling should be given at the school level when the girls are to complete their secondary education.In this way majority of the girls will be covered. Secondly why only girls. Boys also need counselling. They ought to know their duties and responsibilities. They ought to know that a girl who comes to a new house needs space. Mothers and mother in laws both should understand that they should both give their children right advice and help them settle in life without
bitterness.
No doubt the step should be applauded. The lesson, the patience that the girls learnt while living in a joint family are missing in today's india.The girls of today are aware of their rights . They want freedom.They cannot tolerate injustice.But certain other points should also be kept in mind to solve this problem.All the girls are not lucky enough to go to college. So such a counselling should be given at the school level when the girls are to complete their secondary education.In this way majority of the girls will be covered. Secondly why only girls. Boys also need counselling. They ought to know their duties and responsibilities. They ought to know that a girl who comes to a new house needs space. Mothers and mother in laws both should understand that they should both give their children right advice and help them settle in life without
bitterness.
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